NEWBORN / SECOND CHILD ESSENTIALS

If you're a preggie, a new mom, or a mom of two like me, you're going to need some of these essentials! I could not function without the following... and I neglected to add an extra large cup of coffee, but that's an obvious one, right? 

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HANDS-FREE

1. This is the perfect place to plop your baby down wherever you are. It has a little handle on top so it's easy to carry in one hand while you carry your baby in the other. The best part- you can throw the whole thing in the washing machine! Jenni actually lent me hers that she used with Amara. Life saver! That's what friends are for!

2. I LOVE the Ergo baby. How else do you get stuff done when your baby needs to be held? You have to get the infant insert as well so the baby is comfy. When they're a little bigger, you can just use the seat pad so the baby is the right height. This carrier is so comfy that I wore this with Ari from birth (acid reflux baby... omg) up until he was 2.5 years old. 

3. We have a play mat at our house, but Max isn't a huge fan. My parents keep this play mat at their house, and he is just mesmerized by the black and white shapes! He would stay on the mat kicking and smiling for an hour. You can even reverse the mat for different stimulation during tummy time. 

BABY COMFORTS

1. This is the easiest swaddle. Ever. Mom, dad, grandparents, and babysitters can all keep the baby swaddled the exact same way. This just zips up from the bottom (so easy for diaper changes) and has velcro to put baby's arms in. Once Max gets in the swaddle, he's asleep in seconds. Really. 

2. These pacifiers are the same ones you get at the hospital. They're super soft and most like a nipple. Another thing I love about these is the hole in the middle. Ari loves to "help" and hold the pacifier in Max's mouth with his finger. So sweet. 

3. Aden and Anais make the best burp cloths! They're super absorbent, shaped perfectly to fit over your shoulder, they can snap around baby's neck like a bib, and of course I love the stylish patterns. 

FOR MAMA

1. What in the world did I do before I had a backpack diaper bag?? When I'm getting the kids into the car, closing the stroller, schleping the grocery bags, etc., the last thing I need is my diaper bag falling off my shoulder or swinging around to hit me in the face. This backpack has pockets upon pockets and comes with a changing pad, wet sack, clutch for all of my stuff, a bottle cooler, stroller straps, and a strap to convert this to a shoulder bag. It really makes me feel stylish and organized. Also a bit like Felicity which obviously is amazing.  

2. Jenni gave me this lip gloss when I was in the hospital after having Max. It is the perfect shade of pink-nude and makes me feel a little glam even when I haven't showered for three days. Isn't she the best??

3. I adore this teething jewelry from Mama & Little. Made by a mom who wanted to look cute and give her baby the best- what a smarty! All totally safe, super stylish, and incredibly affordable!! They have necklaces you can layer in different lengths and colors all with a satin cord on your neck so it doesn't pull out your hair! Max just started teething, so I know these will come in handy but also make me feel a little bit more put together. 

BIG BRO / SIS

1. I like to have special projects for Ari to do while I've got baby stuff going on. Love this mosaic kit for your older child. We did this over Thanksgiving, and it kept all 5 cousins busy, ages 3-10! 

2. A stool will make your older child feel part of the action at the changing table or crib. Ari feels very important standing on it, squishing Max's cheeks while I do a diaper change. Anyone else's kid enthralled with baby poop as much as mine? 

3. When I'm exhausted all the time sometimes I just need to sit, so a big floor puzzle is perfect for tired mamas and active toddlers. Much better than the Sleeping Beauty game I made up where I sleep until my prince kisses me to wake me up. So great when the prince gets distracted and let's me sleep a little longer :)

I have to say the best thing we did for Ari to make him feel extra special was to have a "Big Brother Party". It was as simple as hanging a few streamers and balloons and getting cupcakes from Kroger- you would have thought it was his birthday with how excited he was. We gave him a big brother gift and a present from Max. I highly recommend this for you mamas out there!!

Mr. Max at 3 months old

What are your favorite baby necessities I'm missing? I'd love to hear from you!

-L